Stylin' Tip: Wedding Dress Love!

Shopping for a wedding dress can be a frustrating process, but it is much worse when you are over size 10. The traditional wedding dress shops do not carry larger sample sizes (and if they do you are most likely to try on a princess gown resembling something possibly worn in the Victorian era) so how are you to know if something is the right shape and style for you? You want to look modern and pretty, just like everyone else!

I totally understand this predicament as I was married a few years back and took (for me) the easy way out- I made my dress. But going store to store trying to get an idea of what I liked was so hard because I couldn’t try anything on and I was (and still am) angry about the whole thing. Here is a pic of my dress:

It had a lace jacket, was tea-length and a had pops of color in the crinoline and waistband!

So, below are some possible options to help you get through this process alive and make it a bit more fun!

Tip #1: Think outside of the box. Who says you have to buy your dress from the “traditional” wedding shop with all their rules and fees. I say, look for dresses that are plus-size that can be added to or manipulated to create what you have in mind. Adding lace, beading, tool, etc. can all be done by a seamstress relatively easily and can end up getting you exactly what you want.

I would also search at vintage stores to see if you could spruce up a used number (an old wedding gown or simply a white dress).

Also maybe think about getting a new dress that isn't necessarily white- just something you like a lot- and add white accessories and shoes to make it look really bridal. A really great printed dress would look fab with a great headpiece, belt and shoes!

Tip #2: Buy Online I know this can be scary, but it is a great place to start. Be prepared to pay for some alterations once you get it, and perhaps some design adjustments, but really, you could have a totally one of a kind look this way.

Madison Plus has a great list of online stores with fab dresses! Check it out HERE!

As long as the dress is purchased from a reputable site, you should be able to get all the measurements you need to order the right size. This can also be cost effective. The downside to this is knowing what style looks good on you.

Some tips:
-strapless is a nice fit on basically everyone (I also love the halter and sweetheart necklines)
-try getting or adding a lace jacket for the ceremony- it is soft and demure and helps hide some of those trouble spots around the arms most of us have
-Tea length or short dresses are super cute and you don't have to worry about getting them hemmed
-think of a dress you have that you wear often and like the shape of. Try and mimic that style for your wedding gown- it is important to choose something that suits your personal style.

Tip #3: Go Custom Made Keeping in mind the tips I just gave you above for fit, locate pictures of things you like and bring them to a local seamstress or designer. If you don’t know anyone, go on Craigslist or ask around. It shouldn’t be that hard to find someone in your area you like. Most will work with you to create a custom look. Remember this process is all about trust. If you aren't feeling the vibe of the designer, just walk away. Don't feel bad about that. If this is the case, be prepared to spend at the very minimum $1000. It takes a lot of time to create a customized dress just for you and just consider this- it is your wedding day after all- treat yourself!

Hope you all have beautiful weddings and know that I am here if you need me!
Xoxo
Stefanie

Stylin' VIDEO: Raiding Your Partner's Closet

This was a favorite video from last year so I thought I'd re-post it for those of you who may not have seen it! Enjoy! xoxo

Some days I get so sad when I look at my wardrobe. Nothing is clean or nothing fits. It is then that I decide to look at what my husband has in his drawer and I whip out the cutest of his shirts. It will definitely fit and with some accessories and some attitude I know I can rock it.

Watch the video on how to make this masculine shirt fantastically feminine and see my detailed notes below on how to make this look work for you!



Tip #1
Choose The Shirt Wisely. Really, it is all in the print (or lack thereof). Plain colors work well - there isn’t too much to think about there, just keep in mind that you should pick a color that is suitable for your skin tone.

But if you want to spice it up (like I always do) then make sure you choose a print that is somewhat current and bold. Don’t choose a print with a tiny floral pattern or minuscule pinstripe. Try for a buffalo check or detailed plaid instead.

Tip #2
The Accessories Make It Lady-Like. This shirt is going to be very boxy, with no darts or feminine shaping at all. You have to add that on your own. Unbutton the top buttons to bring focus on the bust, add a belt at the waist for definition, and roll up the sleeves to show some skin. You must finish the look with girly shoes – manly runners or clunky boots are a no go.

Tip #3
Don’t Forget The Attitude. In order to pull off any look, you have to love it and people need to see that. By flipping up the collar and walking with a bit of a swagger, the look is complete. No need to be over the top, just know that you look hot and others think so too! You can feel confident knowing you put together a great outfit.

Stylin' Tip: Prints!

Why is it that all plus size prints available are horrible? Do I really want to be wearing a psychedelic circular print in neon pink & green on a black background? Was it my life’s goal to wear only microscopic printed flowers in blue and pink on a tan shirt? Definitely not.

I think most of the time designers feel that these prints “distract” or “compliment” our shape, but really – they just make women look gigantic and possibly shabby unnecessarily.

Just because those prints are available doesn’t mean you have to wear them. Here are a few tips on avoiding these dreaded looks:

1. Keep The Colors Neutral and Clean If you avoid bright colors against black and stick with the neutrals it will give you an overall classier look.

The black paired with bright colors is just too much. You notice the print and not the woman. If you stick with a softer color, but still have a cool print, you're set!


2. Don’t Go Overboard If there is a print, the style of garment must be simple – don’t go flashy print and fancy design (ruffles, beading, asymmetrical). Any print must be accompanied by a simple design. Less is definitely more in this scenario!

3. Pick A Size of Print That Matches Your Body Don’t go too small or too big. Too small of a print won’t get noticed from far away and it may actually give you that Laura Ashley vibe unintentionally, and going to big with the print with make you look foolish and out of the loop.

The brown fabric in this image is neutral and the right size - not too big, not too small.


4. Look For Contemporary Prints At the moment, stripes, dots, floral and animal prints are big, but that doesn’t mean you can wear every style.

-Don’t go too narrow on the stripe, don’t go too small on the floral.
-Keep the dots smaller, don’t go crazy or it will look clown-like.
-If it’s a bird or horse print you can’t really go wrong, but again, keep the other rules in mind – neutral/soft colors work best with the proper size pattern (I’d say the images should be anywhere from 1”- 2” wide depending on how many are on the garment).
-Avoid colorful animal prints when wearing cougar/leopard patterns - keep it grey/black if possible.

From this image you can see how keeping the print all in one color tone and smaller is classier than bright, large blotches, right?



5. Don’t Be Intimidated By Prints or Stripes Horizontal stripes can look great if you have the right fit! By avoiding horizontal stripes you really are hindering your style quotient – they are so hot right now!

All you need to do is add a belt that cinches the waist and a long necklace that hangs mid bust point and you’re set. Those 2 things will really elongate you. For good measure, throw your hair up in a stylish bun and watch the compliments roll in!

Look at this picture - the vertical stripes (which people always say make you look slimmer - lie) are so tiny they are hard to look at. If you buy a blouse with this print you will most likely blind everyone you meet!


6. Play It Safe Just wear prints on your accessories! If you’re afraid you’ll make a mistake (or if contemporary prints aren't available in your area), a great way to start incorporating prints is to only use them in accent pieces – scarves, a purse, shoes, etc. That way they won’t be too overwhelming. Keep the rest of your clothes one tone and add a fab scarf around your neck – people will love it - Trust me!

Remember all these tips when shopping - It will help you avoid some style mistakes and hopefully add some classy into your wardrobe!
xoxo
Stefanie

Stylin' Tip: Evening Wear

So this is the first time I'm commenting on celebrity fashion, but I just had to give props to Amber Riley! This dress she wore last night to the Golden Globes was fantastic and we can learn a lot from it!

Amber Riley At the Golden Globes 2011

First, let's analyze the fit:
-Cinched at the waist with a defining belt - yay!
-One strap for support and style - fitting right in with the other fashionistas of the night! No need to dress differently just because you have curves!
-This mermaid shape doesn't always work, but because it is such a heavy weight fabric it cascades off her hips, doesn't cling, and emphasizes her beautiful shape
-The sweetheart neckline holds her in, lifts her up and doesn't reveal too much of her bust, which can often be a problem

Now, for the fabric:
-Love love love this new glitter craze in dresses right now and yay for Amber being right on trend
-Its a bold fabric but not a bold color and this is why it works - It is making a statement, but not in a "look at me, look at me!" way. Classic elegance!

Note Amber's confidence and stature when posing. You can tell she loves this dress! She isn't hiding her arms, or afraid to show off her body - she wants you to feel this good too!

Some curvy & plus-size celebs (I won't mention names) could learn a few things from this lady!
Good job stylist and designer Oliver Tolentino!

xoxo
Stefanie

Stylin' Tip: Accessories

Accessories are meant to enhance an outfit - emphasizing your good parts and distracting us from your trouble spots. Here are a few DOs and DON'Ts regarding accessories:

DO bring attention to your face by wearing large earrings, a head scarf, or a bow

DO wear loose fitting jewellery that cascades off the body. Long necklaces and earrings give the illusion of length & height instead of width.

DO wear strong pieces that match your body's weight and height. Jewellery that is too small on a larger body will not have much impact.

DON'T be afraid to bring some color into your life with accessories. They are meant to be fun afterall! A full black outfit looks extra hot when you add some dynamic red earrings!

DON'T wear cuffs, chokers, ankle straps if you have bulky wrists, neck or calves. The tight jewelery only emphasizes the width in these areas. If you leave them free and open you will look like you have tiny wrists, a longer neck, and slimmer legs.

Obviously these are just suggestions, and rules are meant to be broken! Here are a few accessories that I like that are bold, sophisticated and fun!

A CUTE HAIR ACCESSORY
I've mentioned these before and I probably will again! I love these Beret's!

Click here to see the entire Le Petit Beret Collection!

Love this floral scarf from ASOS obviously!


A BOLD BRACELET
So I am breaking a rule here by suggesting cuffs, but since these are colorful and extra wide they work!

Check out C'est Joli's website for details!

A DYNAMIC NECKLACE
check out shopbop for a great selection and this hot number from Sachin + Babi



And again, just remember that as long as you are confident in your fashion choices, you will look fab!
Have Fun Ladies!
xoxo
Stefanie

Stylin' Tip: Holiday Dress Up Time!

What a perfect time of year for some outfit Stylin’ Tips! Below I’ve shown an item from our collection and mixed it with accessories to show you how much potential a single piece can have!

Lunch With Friends!
At this time of year there is a lot of catching up that happens, isn’t there? Some of my friends I only see once or twice a year and I know I want to look my best when I meet them. How about this outfit? Jeans and a tee make it relaxed. Keeping the colors neutral make it sophisticated. And adding a punch of red around the neck makes it fun! The trick is to find boots that are fashionable, but also work well with a slippery snow lined street. These ones are perfection I think!

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Dinner Date!
Usually there are a few dinners that happen around now – either a date, a girls night out, or a family outing. Try something like this – modern, chic, and very figure flattering. The perfect time to try out a new pair of colorful shoes or a fancy purse! The key to this outfit is keeping your dress and tights neutral and adding colour with the accessories. Try some lace tights! They are the perfect compliment to this look.

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Family Party!
Most Family Soirées happen indoors so I find I try to coordinate my outfits with slippers. I LOVE slippers. Especially these ones – they look like ballet flats but are more comfortable in the house. When you are chasing the kids or doing the dishes, you want to look stylish but still feel at ease. Try this look – you’ll be getting compliments all night and only you’ll know how easy it was to throw together!

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New Years Fete!
This is a night to make a statement! Ring in the New Year with style. Whether you are going out to a party or having an intimate dinner for two, you should choose something that makes you feel good about the year ahead! What’s a better way to start than to receive accolades all night for your beautiful dress? For this night especially, don't forget an elaborate hairpiece to accent the look! This one from Bando is extra special!

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Whatever you do, and whatever you decide to wear, make it memorable and have a fantastic time!

Happy Holidays!
Xoxo
Stefanie

SHOPPING GUIDE:
Aldo
Bando
Betsy Johnson
Biko
Hoibo
Irregular Choice
Isotoner
Rachel Comey
Torrid
Tweak

Stylin' Look: Downtown Nautical

Who says you have to be on a boat to wear deck shoes! My new favorite accessory for summer (and will be for fall) are these little numbers. I am also in love with my new chambray bow-tie blouse! And of course we need the braided navy belt to tie it all together.

Sadly there was a bit of rain this day, but it didn't stop us from having some fun!
A matching umbrella was all the look needed to keep looking chic even in the storm....it really is the little details that make all the difference!

Check out more of my looks on Chictopia!

xoxo
Stefanie

Stylin' VIDEO: Accessories!

So I know I am really pushing this accessory business, but I have to say, a little bit of adornment can make a huge difference.

This video shows you how subtle additions can make a big impact. Read below for further details.





Tip #1
Mix Colors, Textures, and Prints. If your outfit is plain (a pretty black dress for example), that is the best base to experiment. Add a red belt, some turquoise suede pumps, some gold bangles, some black feather earrings and a vintage printed clutch that ties all the colors together. Can you envision it? I can. And trust me - it looks fantastic!

Tip #2
When In Doubt, Go Monochromatic. One way to not mess up in this department is to keep things in the same color tone. A white blouse and jeans would look great with some long strands of pearls, a cream cuff, some pearl stud earrings, and white hair bow – add some white ballet flats and a handbag and you’re party ready!

Tip #3
Don’t Be Afraid To Go Big. Although this video doesn’t show it, I love big oversized brooches, large hair bows, and wide belts. One of the advantages to being bigger is that we can we definitely can pull off larger accessories - in fact I recommend it! Match the scale of your accessories with the scale of your body. Don’t wear a dinky flower on your lapel. Instead, make an impact with a statement piece of jewelry – large drop earrings, a fringe necklace, or a wide beaded belt. I am getting excited just thinking of it!

Till next time,
Xoxo
Stefanie

Stylin' Tip: Swimsuit Season!

I love summer. The heat! The clothes! The drinks! The parties! So much fun to be had.

And during all these fun summer adventures, you know you are going to want to go swimming. Yes, swimming! I can feel the cool water cascade over me as I write this.

For most women, the thought of being swimsuit ready makes them cringe – at least it makes me cringe. I just want to have fun, you know? Let’s check our paranoia and phobias at the door and discuss the best ways for you to look hot in your swimsuit, as is - no weight loss required!

Tip#1
It’s All About Shape. The right swimsuit shape for your body is key. Don’t go wearing a bikini (or even a tankini) if you have extra weight around your middle. You need something to suck you in. And feel free to wear a strapless bathing suit if you have kick ass shoulders, or a backless design if you’ve got the spine.

The key is to know your shape and go from there. Here are some shapes and ideas for the best swimsuit for you:

Pear Shape: Bring attention to your face and not your hips. Get a suit with Gathers or ruffles near your face to draw attention away from your lower half.

Inverted Triangle: In this case you want to make your shoulders look smaller. Try going for a halter style that has extra detailing on your hips. Horizontal stripes would actually be a great idea here, or a vintage style bottom with a skirt attached. The halter will bring attention inward and the lower skirt will balance out the figure.

Curvy: You are pretty lucky if you have this shape, because really, anything goes. Strapless would be dreamy with some extra gathers around the waist to really play up your curves.

Straight: If you have a boxy shape, you want to try and add curves. Color blocking suits would be great for you (try for a black band across the waist and colors on the top and bottom which will make your waist look tiny and your breasts look big). Cut-outs would work well here too, just try not to go overboard - just a little glimpse of skin.

All Over Round: Try incorporating all the elements. Go for a halter suit, with that added skirt on the bottom. Make sure it has some gathering in the torso area and if it is multi colored all the better!

Tip#2
Wraps Are Lovely. They really are great for covering less attractive bits and they can add structure to your look. If you are heavier on the bottom go for a wrap that cascades off your hips, like a jacket wrap or cowl neck dress style. If you have wider shoulders a wrap that goes around your waist and brings attention to your hips is a great idea.

Tip#3
Know When To Use Colors and Prints. They are great when used correctly, but if you get it wrong, it could be disastrous. Use a print or color to draw attention to a certain area. If you have a smaller bust and want to enhance it, get a printed/colored top half and a plain black bottom to match. If you have small hips and a large upper body, put emphasis on the lower half with a printed wrap or skirt and have plain colors on your top half. Once you figure it out, prints and colors will be your best friends.

Tip#4
Accessorize. I know you probably think I am crazy, but for real – with any outfit you want to add a few things to beef up the look so why not a swimsuit- it is an outfit after all. When you are in the water, for sure, bathing suit only. But when you are lounging or eating lunch on the patio try to add a few things to beef up the look so people can see a full picture view, not just the suit. A bow tied bandanna, a heavy weight cuff, a statement making pair of sandals, and of course an elegant wrap or gauzy sweater to pull the look together. Don’t forget your amazing beach bag filled with goodies- magazines, sunscreen, water, fruit, and music.

Once again, confidence is all you need to have a good time. With these added touches, you will feel great and your energy will transfer to everyone you meet. As long as you are having fun and loving the day, everyone will be!

Here’s to a great summer!
xoxo
Stefanie

Shopping Guide:
PEAR SUIT
INVERTED TRIANGLE SUIT
CURVY SUIT
STRAIGHT SUIT
ROUNDED FIGURE SUIT
CASUAL COVER-UP
FANCY COVER-UP
BEACH BAG

Stylin' Tip via FGG: Creative Ways to Cover-up

So the lovely ladies at The Fat Girl's Guide to Living asked me to contribute recently to their site by answering readers questions. This one is about how to cover your upper arms during these hot summer months!

Here's a taste: Getting a super cute stretch body suit with 3/4 length or short sleeves, preferably in something current and edgy. Lace is so in right now and would look great under solid colors and/or prints. With a print dress you can get a bit creative and do an 80’s vibe with a denim vest and colored leggings too.

You can read my advice on The Fat Girl's Guide to Living Blog. Hope you find the tips helpful. And make sure you browse through their site - lots of good tips to be had for sure!

Till next time,
xoxo
Stefanie

Stylin' Tip: Bra Fit Secrets

So I'm not really sure if these are "secrets" or not, but it always good to get a refresher, don't you think?

First of all, you don’t need to live in discomfort and you don’t need to be ashamed of your size- big or small we are all fab! So don't be afraid to get your bra fit professionally. I have had it done numerous times and I can tell you there is nothing to fear. If you choose a smallish bra boutique (avoid stores at the mall if at all possible), you will get the best service and the best fit.

Fitting a bra is complicated and I don’t want to freak you out here with too many details. What I do want to tell you about are some simple things that will help make the bras you already have fit better (and maybe even talk some sense into you and convince you to buy a new bra).

Here are some basic tips to get you started:

Tip #1
Trust The Underwire. I hear people complain about underwire often, and really, I don’t get it. Underwire is the best invention ever! It lifts and holds those ladies up! If you are having trouble feeling comfortable with underwire style bras, you definitely are wearing the wrong size. The wire should be just on the outer edge of your breast and should not be digging into you anywhere. (See photo Tip#1)

Tip#2
Pull Up The Straps! If you are wearing a bra everyday, there is going to be movement; In particular, movement in the straps. The straps are a great way to add extra lift and definition to your breasts. Check them and make sure you are at the maximum resistance level. (See photo Tip #2)

Tip#3
Make Sure To Pull Your Breast Into The Cup. This is a must- after you put on your bra, you must take your hand and manually ensure your breast is in the cup. It helps the bra sit flatter against your chest, gives you more cleavage, and is definitely more comfortable.

Tip#4
Never Wear A Sports Bra Outside Of The Gym. A sports bra is the devil. First of all, it obviously does nothing for the figure- it flattens, it shows the nipples, and it is so tight and bulky it makes it look like you have a log on your chest. I am of the mind that if you have a bra that fits right, you will never need a sports bra, not even for the gym. A good bra will hold you in, lift you up, and not bother you. Second, they are just uncomfortable. Do you really want a huge elastic band strapped to your chest making you all sweaty and leaving you looking like a man? I didn’t think so.

Tip#5
Always Wear A Bra. Listen, I know this may sound harsh and anti-feminist, but it isn’t, I swear. Without a bra, you look at least 1 size bigger than you are. Why? Because your breasts sag into your chest and meld with your stomach and create one large mass which is totally unflattering. It may be comfortable, but it is not appealing to the eye. The only reason I can see not wearing a bra is because it is uncomfortable; that only happens if you wearing the wrong size (both being too big or too small can cause troubles). With the right size, you won’t even realize you are wearing a bra and the rest of the world won't be distracted by your sagging chest.

Tip#6
Beware of the problems. If you are wearing the wrong size here are some of the clues and possible solutions:

The Bra Band Rides Up In The Back: Adjustment of the straps or getting larger cup/band size should help (See photo Tip #6 A)

The Bra Underwire Cuts In At The Sides: Try adjusting your cup size. You’ll most likely need a bigger one

The Centre Front Is Not Sitting Flat Against Your Chest,
There Is A Bulge Created In The Front Where The Edge Of The Cup Meets Your Skin, Or
The Bottom Of The Cup Is Not Sitting Flat Against Your Chest: Your cup size is most likely too small (See photo Tip #6 B)

There Is Gaping In The Cup,
The Band Is Sagging Or Loose, Or
You Just Can’t Seem To Get Any Lift: Your cup and/or band size is probably too big

So again, please don’t be afraid to get fit properly. It is actually a lot of fun and you will feel so much better after. Don’t forget, it is really important if you gain or lose weight that you get re-fitted. Your body is constantly changing and you may need to adjust your size from time to time. The good news is, if you are wearing a bra correctly you can look sizes smaller and feel a lot sexier in the process.

xoxo
Stefanie

Stylin' Tip: Give It a Try!

One of the phrases I hate to hear women say is “Oh, I could never pull that off”. Why not? I think women should take the leap and try blending current trends with their personal style. Don’t forget that the old cliché stands true: You never know unless you try!

Some tips to make it easier for you are below:

Tip #1:
Start Small. Work in one new thing at a time. Some cute earrings first, then a waist-belt, then a bow headband, then an awesome pair of heels. Week by week you can build to the look until you are confident enough to wear everything together (you can by the way).

Tip #2:
Know Who To Ask For Advice. If you are planning on wearing that feather hair clip for the first time, don’t ask the friend who hasn’t changed her hairstyle in 10 years if it looks good – it will only make you both angry. You need to find someone whose style you admire and who you don't feel competitive with. Don’t be afraid to ask that style maven at work how she does it or what she thinks of your look. Most people love to share their tips and also love compliments.

Tip #3:
Don’t Abandon Reason. A new look or accessory is great, but lets consider the time and place. A regular office workday might not be the appropriate time to show off the new fedora, but an evening dinner date - go for it!

Tip #4:
Fit Rules Still Apply. Don’t wear something if it doesn’t fit properly. Those short shorts that give you a muffin top and show a bunch of cellulite are not a good idea no matter how "of the moment" the style is. Clothing still has to fit and flatter you in order for it to look good.

Tip #5:
Don’t Get Theatrical. This is all about enhancing your look. If you are too bold, you could be screaming "look at my new accessories!" Try to think modern and not trendy and work within a comfortable color palette. Add style with a cute printed scarf and not an entire printed dress. As noted in point 1, work in small steps to achieve your look.

Tip #6:
Confidence is key. The only way you can wear anything is if you believe you look good in it yourself. You have to love it. You have to want to be wearing it. And trust me, if you believe it, others will too. Don’t be intimidated by all the stares you will be getting - it is because you look mega hot! Trust.

So try out that new item today and get ready to turn some heads!

xoxo
Stefanie

Shopping Guide:
Clip
Earrings
Necklace
Scarf
Shoes

Stylin' VIDEO: Eliminating the Muffin Top

For today’s tip we are focusing on that area at the waistline where many women get that unsightly bulge hanging over. Now, I realize that everyone has problem days and I am certainly not immune to this predicament, but let's try to make the best look possible with what we’ve got!

Below is a video detailing this problem or scroll down further for more detailed instructions.



1. Don’t be afraid to wear a bigger size. Yes, it is a bummer when we grow a bit bigger than our normal size, but it isn’t the end of the world. Go out and buy a new pair of pants! You work hard, you deserve nice things. No one knows what size you are wearing and no one cares. With that extra few inches of space you eliminate any skin/fat hanging over and instantly have a smoother shape- thus making you look thinner.

2. Please no tight shirts with tight pants. If you absolutely must wear bottoms that are too tight, please wear the appropriate top. Make sure you have a blouse that cascades over the belly area and doesn’t cling to it. A heavy weight fabric is great for this, or even a billowing crepe or chiffon. I would avoid any stretch items in this case. This is a great quick fix for when you are in that in between stage of sizes and don’t want to buy something new just yet.

3. Avoid low rise pants and skirts. The style I see from a lot of retailers these days is super low cut - Like 4” of rise. How is that comfortable? The low cut also sits lower on the abdomen (where there is more bulk) and what results is the muffin top. By just wearing bottoms with a higher waist, you can banish this problem. The higher the waistline the narrower the abdomen gets. The higher waist will cover up all the rolls. Try it, you’ll see.

4. Stand tall and proud. I am old fashioned, but I have an issue with slouching. Even more of an issue when I see that it adds extra weight to a person. By standing up tall and straight, it gives the fat somewhere to go (a more even distribution if you will) and will make you look slimmer- promise.

xoxo
Stefanie

Stylin' Tip: Shoe Shopping!

Shoes!

This week lets discuss how to bring your outfit together with awesome shoes!

I have always been a lover of shoes, and often I have been known to buy shoes first and the outfit second (I have heard this is a common thing-hehe). But sadly, I see combinations that don’t really work. Great shoes paired with bad outfits, or horrible shoes matched with amazing pieces. Some things for you to think about when choosing your shoes:

Tip #1:
Ballerina Flats match everything! These can be worn with skirts, jeans, capris, wide leg pants, slim fit pants- so versatile. These would be a great replacement to running shoes when completing errands. It instantly makes a casual look dressier and gives you that Audrey Hepburn appeal.

In the summer, feel free to substitute strappy flat sandals for ballerina flats (same rules apply).

Tip#2:
Pumps should only be worn with skirts. To clarify, pumps are those Barbie-like shoes, with a high heel, closed toe (usually pointy). You can wear pumps with pants, but its tricky. You have to ensure the pants are the right length (generally longer than you think) and the right width (super skinny or super wide). Just to be safe, wear pumps only with skirts, otherwise you could be dating yourself.

Tip#3:
Wedges and platform heels should be worn with “slim fit” styles. Slim fit jeans and pencil skirts really show off your legs and the wedge/platform heel adds the extra umph you need, giving you lift, height, and balance. This is the modern day pump.

Tip #4:
Don’t match your shoes and outfit perfectly. If you are wearing an all black outfit, add a colorful shoe. If you are wearing a super vibrant outfit, wear a neutral shoe. Switch it up! This technique definitely will give you some style savvy!

Tip #5:
The Bootie is the perfect transitional shoe. Not as bulky as a full boot, but more protective than a ballerina flat, these shoes are great to wear in the fall and spring. They would be too heavy for summer months and not heavy enough for the winter season (if you have snow that is), but look amazing with slim fit styles. They will give you that urban casual look you’ve been craving.

Till next time!
xoxo
Stefanie

Shoe Shopping Guide:
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Bootie

Stylin' VIDEO: Boxy to Hot

Today I wanted to discuss with you a common problem I see- Boxy Fitting Clothing.

In some ways it is good to have your clothes be bigger or square, because the items then cascade off the body and hide all those problem areas we all have.

The trouble is when we don’t style those cuts properly and end up looking bigger than we are.

Watch the video or read my more detailed tips below:



1. If your shirt has a square cut, try adding a belt. If you can’t find a cool belt that is your size, go out and get some ribbon to give your waist definition. If you really don’t like the idea of a belt, chose a vest or jacket that cuts in at the waist- this will also define the body.

2. Most women I see are wearing the “boot cut” pant. To be honest, unless you are actually wearing boots, I don’t think this style pant is doing you any favors. Try wearing a more modern silhouette. Slim fit is preferred or if that doesn’t work for you, go with a wide leg instead of boot cut.

Boot cuts tend to be too baggy and despite what people tell you, they do not balance out a figure. A tiny little flare at the hem does not equal a large upper body. And also, make sure they are the right length. If a pant is too short it can make you look stumpy. The pant should be just close enough to the floor without touching it.

3. Shoes are a very important accessory and should not be forgotten. I love heels, but I walk everywhere I go, so they are not very practical. I prefer to wear a ballet flat for everyday that has a bit of detail (a pop of color, a bow, a ruffle). They look great with everything- Slim fit pants, wide leg pants, skirts and dresses. Try transitioning out of a heavy, clunking shoe.

4. Don’t forget that your face is one of your best features and should never be forgotten! By pulling your hair back, adding some fresh and quick make-up, your look is complete!

xoxo
Stefanie

Stylin' Tip: The Half-wrap Shirt

I have seen this style of shirt everywhere, on every woman, in every size. It can be the most flattering fit if worn correctly, but worn incorrectly it can be disastrous. I’m sure you’ve seen it as well…

It isn’t always the fault of the wearer; I’ll give you that. Most of the time this style blouse is made by the manufacturer in haste, not taking into account the actual size of a woman’s bust. This is the main problem. The line of this shirt cuts right across the widest part of the bust and the fabric below falls in such a way that it makes a woman’s entire upper body look like a linebackers.

 

So some quick tips on how to avoid this troublesome issue: