I totally understand this predicament as I was married a few years back and took (for me) the easy way out- I made my dress. But going store to store trying to get an idea of what I liked was so hard because I couldn’t try anything on and I was (and still am) angry about the whole thing. Here is a pic of my dress:
It had a lace jacket, was tea-length and a had pops of color in the crinoline and waistband!
So, below are some possible options to help you get through this process alive and make it a bit more fun!
Tip #1: Think outside of the box. Who says you have to buy your dress from the “traditional” wedding shop with all their rules and fees. I say, look for dresses that are plus-size that can be added to or manipulated to create what you have in mind. Adding lace, beading, tool, etc. can all be done by a seamstress relatively easily and can end up getting you exactly what you want.
I would also search at vintage stores to see if you could spruce up a used number (an old wedding gown or simply a white dress).
Also maybe think about getting a new dress that isn't necessarily white- just something you like a lot- and add white accessories and shoes to make it look really bridal. A really great printed dress would look fab with a great headpiece, belt and shoes!
Tip #2: Buy Online I know this can be scary, but it is a great place to start. Be prepared to pay for some alterations once you get it, and perhaps some design adjustments, but really, you could have a totally one of a kind look this way.
Madison Plus has a great list of online stores with fab dresses! Check it out HERE!
As long as the dress is purchased from a reputable site, you should be able to get all the measurements you need to order the right size. This can also be cost effective. The downside to this is knowing what style looks good on you.
Some tips:
-strapless is a nice fit on basically everyone (I also love the halter and sweetheart necklines)
-try getting or adding a lace jacket for the ceremony- it is soft and demure and helps hide some of those trouble spots around the arms most of us have
-Tea length or short dresses are super cute and you don't have to worry about getting them hemmed
-think of a dress you have that you wear often and like the shape of. Try and mimic that style for your wedding gown- it is important to choose something that suits your personal style.
Tip #3: Go Custom Made Keeping in mind the tips I just gave you above for fit, locate pictures of things you like and bring them to a local seamstress or designer. If you don’t know anyone, go on Craigslist or ask around. It shouldn’t be that hard to find someone in your area you like. Most will work with you to create a custom look. Remember this process is all about trust. If you aren't feeling the vibe of the designer, just walk away. Don't feel bad about that. If this is the case, be prepared to spend at the very minimum $1000. It takes a lot of time to create a customized dress just for you and just consider this- it is your wedding day after all- treat yourself!
Hope you all have beautiful weddings and know that I am here if you need me!
Xoxo
Stefanie
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