My friend said to me the other day that she was impressed by how I have embraced the headscarf with such intensity. She actually can't remember me without it and I think that is a sign of complete success! Obviously, my absolute favorite accessory is the hair bow. I wear one with practically everything. And now you can too!
I originally posted this last summer, but I think some of you might have missed it and frankly, now is the perfect time to test it out anyways! It looks especially great in spring - so fresh! Something I didn't mention last time, to get the best bow, your scarf should be about 36" square or 54" X 10" long.
It really is super easy and if you have the confidence and flair, you can make this retro accessory look totally modern and cute!
Watch the video and check out below for some more detailed instructions.
Step #1
Grab a pretty square or rectangular scarf and 6 bobby pins.
Step #2
For a square scarf, fold it in half- creating a triangle. Then you want to start at the tip of the triangle and roll the scarf inwards creating a strip approx. 2” wide.
For a rectangular scarf, just kinda scrunch it up (or roll it if it is really wide) to create that same 2” wide strip.
Step #3
Place the scarf at the centre back of your neck, lift the ends to the front of your head and tie a knot. Making sure it is secure, go ahead and tie a bow. Using the “bunny ears” method is the easiest- try to think of when you were a kid tying your shoelaces for the first time. Then once that is done, fluff out the bow to get it exactly how you want it.
Step #4
Secure the bow with a few bobby pins. At the back of your head on either side, you are going to want to place 2 pins in an X shape for maximum strength. Then place one on either side of the bow at the front of your head (not to worry - the bow should hide the pins).
And that’s it! An eye-catching effect that frames your face and will get people noticing you!
Hope you try it out soon – let me know how it goes!
xoxo
Stefanie
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Showing posts with label confidence. Show all posts
Thursday, May 19, 2011
Tuesday, April 26, 2011
Stylin' VIDEO: Raiding Your Partner's Closet
This was a favorite video from last year so I thought I'd re-post it for those of you who may not have seen it! Enjoy! xoxo
Some days I get so sad when I look at my wardrobe. Nothing is clean or nothing fits. It is then that I decide to look at what my husband has in his drawer and I whip out the cutest of his shirts. It will definitely fit and with some accessories and some attitude I know I can rock it.
Watch the video on how to make this masculine shirt fantastically feminine and see my detailed notes below on how to make this look work for you!
Tip #1
Choose The Shirt Wisely. Really, it is all in the print (or lack thereof). Plain colors work well - there isn’t too much to think about there, just keep in mind that you should pick a color that is suitable for your skin tone.
But if you want to spice it up (like I always do) then make sure you choose a print that is somewhat current and bold. Don’t choose a print with a tiny floral pattern or minuscule pinstripe. Try for a buffalo check or detailed plaid instead.
Tip #2
The Accessories Make It Lady-Like. This shirt is going to be very boxy, with no darts or feminine shaping at all. You have to add that on your own. Unbutton the top buttons to bring focus on the bust, add a belt at the waist for definition, and roll up the sleeves to show some skin. You must finish the look with girly shoes – manly runners or clunky boots are a no go.
Tip #3
Don’t Forget The Attitude. In order to pull off any look, you have to love it and people need to see that. By flipping up the collar and walking with a bit of a swagger, the look is complete. No need to be over the top, just know that you look hot and others think so too! You can feel confident knowing you put together a great outfit.
Some days I get so sad when I look at my wardrobe. Nothing is clean or nothing fits. It is then that I decide to look at what my husband has in his drawer and I whip out the cutest of his shirts. It will definitely fit and with some accessories and some attitude I know I can rock it.
Watch the video on how to make this masculine shirt fantastically feminine and see my detailed notes below on how to make this look work for you!
Tip #1
Choose The Shirt Wisely. Really, it is all in the print (or lack thereof). Plain colors work well - there isn’t too much to think about there, just keep in mind that you should pick a color that is suitable for your skin tone.
But if you want to spice it up (like I always do) then make sure you choose a print that is somewhat current and bold. Don’t choose a print with a tiny floral pattern or minuscule pinstripe. Try for a buffalo check or detailed plaid instead.
Tip #2
The Accessories Make It Lady-Like. This shirt is going to be very boxy, with no darts or feminine shaping at all. You have to add that on your own. Unbutton the top buttons to bring focus on the bust, add a belt at the waist for definition, and roll up the sleeves to show some skin. You must finish the look with girly shoes – manly runners or clunky boots are a no go.
Tip #3
Don’t Forget The Attitude. In order to pull off any look, you have to love it and people need to see that. By flipping up the collar and walking with a bit of a swagger, the look is complete. No need to be over the top, just know that you look hot and others think so too! You can feel confident knowing you put together a great outfit.
Friday, March 4, 2011
Stylin' Tip: Prints!
Why is it that all plus size prints available are horrible? Do I really want to be wearing a psychedelic circular print in neon pink & green on a black background? Was it my life’s goal to wear only microscopic printed flowers in blue and pink on a tan shirt? Definitely not.
I think most of the time designers feel that these prints “distract” or “compliment” our shape, but really – they just make women look gigantic and possibly shabby unnecessarily.
Just because those prints are available doesn’t mean you have to wear them. Here are a few tips on avoiding these dreaded looks:
1. Keep The Colors Neutral and Clean If you avoid bright colors against black and stick with the neutrals it will give you an overall classier look.
The black paired with bright colors is just too much. You notice the print and not the woman. If you stick with a softer color, but still have a cool print, you're set!
2. Don’t Go Overboard If there is a print, the style of garment must be simple – don’t go flashy print and fancy design (ruffles, beading, asymmetrical). Any print must be accompanied by a simple design. Less is definitely more in this scenario!
3. Pick A Size of Print That Matches Your Body Don’t go too small or too big. Too small of a print won’t get noticed from far away and it may actually give you that Laura Ashley vibe unintentionally, and going to big with the print with make you look foolish and out of the loop.
The brown fabric in this image is neutral and the right size - not too big, not too small.
4. Look For Contemporary Prints At the moment, stripes, dots, floral and animal prints are big, but that doesn’t mean you can wear every style.
-Don’t go too narrow on the stripe, don’t go too small on the floral.
-Keep the dots smaller, don’t go crazy or it will look clown-like.
-If it’s a bird or horse print you can’t really go wrong, but again, keep the other rules in mind – neutral/soft colors work best with the proper size pattern (I’d say the images should be anywhere from 1”- 2” wide depending on how many are on the garment).
-Avoid colorful animal prints when wearing cougar/leopard patterns - keep it grey/black if possible.
From this image you can see how keeping the print all in one color tone and smaller is classier than bright, large blotches, right?
5. Don’t Be Intimidated By Prints or Stripes Horizontal stripes can look great if you have the right fit! By avoiding horizontal stripes you really are hindering your style quotient – they are so hot right now!
All you need to do is add a belt that cinches the waist and a long necklace that hangs mid bust point and you’re set. Those 2 things will really elongate you. For good measure, throw your hair up in a stylish bun and watch the compliments roll in!
Look at this picture - the vertical stripes (which people always say make you look slimmer - lie) are so tiny they are hard to look at. If you buy a blouse with this print you will most likely blind everyone you meet!
6. Play It Safe Just wear prints on your accessories! If you’re afraid you’ll make a mistake (or if contemporary prints aren't available in your area), a great way to start incorporating prints is to only use them in accent pieces – scarves, a purse, shoes, etc. That way they won’t be too overwhelming. Keep the rest of your clothes one tone and add a fab scarf around your neck – people will love it - Trust me!
Remember all these tips when shopping - It will help you avoid some style mistakes and hopefully add some classy into your wardrobe!
xoxo
Stefanie
I think most of the time designers feel that these prints “distract” or “compliment” our shape, but really – they just make women look gigantic and possibly shabby unnecessarily.
Just because those prints are available doesn’t mean you have to wear them. Here are a few tips on avoiding these dreaded looks:
1. Keep The Colors Neutral and Clean If you avoid bright colors against black and stick with the neutrals it will give you an overall classier look.
The black paired with bright colors is just too much. You notice the print and not the woman. If you stick with a softer color, but still have a cool print, you're set!
2. Don’t Go Overboard If there is a print, the style of garment must be simple – don’t go flashy print and fancy design (ruffles, beading, asymmetrical). Any print must be accompanied by a simple design. Less is definitely more in this scenario!
3. Pick A Size of Print That Matches Your Body Don’t go too small or too big. Too small of a print won’t get noticed from far away and it may actually give you that Laura Ashley vibe unintentionally, and going to big with the print with make you look foolish and out of the loop.
The brown fabric in this image is neutral and the right size - not too big, not too small.
4. Look For Contemporary Prints At the moment, stripes, dots, floral and animal prints are big, but that doesn’t mean you can wear every style.
-Don’t go too narrow on the stripe, don’t go too small on the floral.
-Keep the dots smaller, don’t go crazy or it will look clown-like.
-If it’s a bird or horse print you can’t really go wrong, but again, keep the other rules in mind – neutral/soft colors work best with the proper size pattern (I’d say the images should be anywhere from 1”- 2” wide depending on how many are on the garment).
-Avoid colorful animal prints when wearing cougar/leopard patterns - keep it grey/black if possible.
From this image you can see how keeping the print all in one color tone and smaller is classier than bright, large blotches, right?
5. Don’t Be Intimidated By Prints or Stripes Horizontal stripes can look great if you have the right fit! By avoiding horizontal stripes you really are hindering your style quotient – they are so hot right now!
All you need to do is add a belt that cinches the waist and a long necklace that hangs mid bust point and you’re set. Those 2 things will really elongate you. For good measure, throw your hair up in a stylish bun and watch the compliments roll in!
Look at this picture - the vertical stripes (which people always say make you look slimmer - lie) are so tiny they are hard to look at. If you buy a blouse with this print you will most likely blind everyone you meet!
6. Play It Safe Just wear prints on your accessories! If you’re afraid you’ll make a mistake (or if contemporary prints aren't available in your area), a great way to start incorporating prints is to only use them in accent pieces – scarves, a purse, shoes, etc. That way they won’t be too overwhelming. Keep the rest of your clothes one tone and add a fab scarf around your neck – people will love it - Trust me!
Remember all these tips when shopping - It will help you avoid some style mistakes and hopefully add some classy into your wardrobe!
xoxo
Stefanie
Monday, January 17, 2011
Stylin' Tip: Evening Wear
So this is the first time I'm commenting on celebrity fashion, but I just had to give props to Amber Riley! This dress she wore last night to the Golden Globes was fantastic and we can learn a lot from it!
First, let's analyze the fit:
-Cinched at the waist with a defining belt - yay!
-One strap for support and style - fitting right in with the other fashionistas of the night! No need to dress differently just because you have curves!
-This mermaid shape doesn't always work, but because it is such a heavy weight fabric it cascades off her hips, doesn't cling, and emphasizes her beautiful shape
-The sweetheart neckline holds her in, lifts her up and doesn't reveal too much of her bust, which can often be a problem
Now, for the fabric:
-Love love love this new glitter craze in dresses right now and yay for Amber being right on trend
-Its a bold fabric but not a bold color and this is why it works - It is making a statement, but not in a "look at me, look at me!" way. Classic elegance!
Note Amber's confidence and stature when posing. You can tell she loves this dress! She isn't hiding her arms, or afraid to show off her body - she wants you to feel this good too!
Some curvy & plus-size celebs (I won't mention names) could learn a few things from this lady!
Good job stylist and designer Oliver Tolentino!
xoxo
Stefanie
Amber Riley At the Golden Globes 2011
First, let's analyze the fit:
-Cinched at the waist with a defining belt - yay!
-One strap for support and style - fitting right in with the other fashionistas of the night! No need to dress differently just because you have curves!
-This mermaid shape doesn't always work, but because it is such a heavy weight fabric it cascades off her hips, doesn't cling, and emphasizes her beautiful shape
-The sweetheart neckline holds her in, lifts her up and doesn't reveal too much of her bust, which can often be a problem
Now, for the fabric:
-Love love love this new glitter craze in dresses right now and yay for Amber being right on trend
-Its a bold fabric but not a bold color and this is why it works - It is making a statement, but not in a "look at me, look at me!" way. Classic elegance!
Note Amber's confidence and stature when posing. You can tell she loves this dress! She isn't hiding her arms, or afraid to show off her body - she wants you to feel this good too!
Some curvy & plus-size celebs (I won't mention names) could learn a few things from this lady!
Good job stylist and designer Oliver Tolentino!
xoxo
Stefanie
Thursday, January 13, 2011
Stylin' Tip: Accessories
Accessories are meant to enhance an outfit - emphasizing your good parts and distracting us from your trouble spots. Here are a few DOs and DON'Ts regarding accessories:
DO bring attention to your face by wearing large earrings, a head scarf, or a bow
DO wear loose fitting jewellery that cascades off the body. Long necklaces and earrings give the illusion of length & height instead of width.
DO wear strong pieces that match your body's weight and height. Jewellery that is too small on a larger body will not have much impact.
DON'T be afraid to bring some color into your life with accessories. They are meant to be fun afterall! A full black outfit looks extra hot when you add some dynamic red earrings!
DON'T wear cuffs, chokers, ankle straps if you have bulky wrists, neck or calves. The tight jewelery only emphasizes the width in these areas. If you leave them free and open you will look like you have tiny wrists, a longer neck, and slimmer legs.
Obviously these are just suggestions, and rules are meant to be broken! Here are a few accessories that I like that are bold, sophisticated and fun!
A CUTE HAIR ACCESSORY
I've mentioned these before and I probably will again! I love these Beret's!
Click here to see the entire Le Petit Beret Collection!
Love this floral scarf from ASOS obviously!
A BOLD BRACELET
So I am breaking a rule here by suggesting cuffs, but since these are colorful and extra wide they work!
Check out C'est Joli's website for details!
A DYNAMIC NECKLACE
check out shopbop for a great selection and this hot number from Sachin + Babi
And again, just remember that as long as you are confident in your fashion choices, you will look fab!
Have Fun Ladies!
xoxo
Stefanie
DO bring attention to your face by wearing large earrings, a head scarf, or a bow
DO wear loose fitting jewellery that cascades off the body. Long necklaces and earrings give the illusion of length & height instead of width.
DO wear strong pieces that match your body's weight and height. Jewellery that is too small on a larger body will not have much impact.
DON'T be afraid to bring some color into your life with accessories. They are meant to be fun afterall! A full black outfit looks extra hot when you add some dynamic red earrings!
DON'T wear cuffs, chokers, ankle straps if you have bulky wrists, neck or calves. The tight jewelery only emphasizes the width in these areas. If you leave them free and open you will look like you have tiny wrists, a longer neck, and slimmer legs.
Obviously these are just suggestions, and rules are meant to be broken! Here are a few accessories that I like that are bold, sophisticated and fun!
A CUTE HAIR ACCESSORY
I've mentioned these before and I probably will again! I love these Beret's!
Click here to see the entire Le Petit Beret Collection!
Love this floral scarf from ASOS obviously!
A BOLD BRACELET
So I am breaking a rule here by suggesting cuffs, but since these are colorful and extra wide they work!
Check out C'est Joli's website for details!
A DYNAMIC NECKLACE
check out shopbop for a great selection and this hot number from Sachin + Babi
And again, just remember that as long as you are confident in your fashion choices, you will look fab!
Have Fun Ladies!
xoxo
Stefanie
Tuesday, June 22, 2010
Stylin' Tip: Swimsuit Season!
I love summer. The heat! The clothes! The drinks! The parties! So much fun to be had.
And during all these fun summer adventures, you know you are going to want to go swimming. Yes, swimming! I can feel the cool water cascade over me as I write this.
For most women, the thought of being swimsuit ready makes them cringe – at least it makes me cringe. I just want to have fun, you know? Let’s check our paranoia and phobias at the door and discuss the best ways for you to look hot in your swimsuit, as is - no weight loss required!
Tip#1
It’s All About Shape. The right swimsuit shape for your body is key. Don’t go wearing a bikini (or even a tankini) if you have extra weight around your middle. You need something to suck you in. And feel free to wear a strapless bathing suit if you have kick ass shoulders, or a backless design if you’ve got the spine.
The key is to know your shape and go from there. Here are some shapes and ideas for the best swimsuit for you:
Pear Shape: Bring attention to your face and not your hips. Get a suit with Gathers or ruffles near your face to draw attention away from your lower half.
Inverted Triangle: In this case you want to make your shoulders look smaller. Try going for a halter style that has extra detailing on your hips. Horizontal stripes would actually be a great idea here, or a vintage style bottom with a skirt attached. The halter will bring attention inward and the lower skirt will balance out the figure.
Curvy: You are pretty lucky if you have this shape, because really, anything goes. Strapless would be dreamy with some extra gathers around the waist to really play up your curves.
Straight: If you have a boxy shape, you want to try and add curves. Color blocking suits would be great for you (try for a black band across the waist and colors on the top and bottom which will make your waist look tiny and your breasts look big). Cut-outs would work well here too, just try not to go overboard - just a little glimpse of skin.
All Over Round: Try incorporating all the elements. Go for a halter suit, with that added skirt on the bottom. Make sure it has some gathering in the torso area and if it is multi colored all the better!
Tip#2
Wraps Are Lovely. They really are great for covering less attractive bits and they can add structure to your look. If you are heavier on the bottom go for a wrap that cascades off your hips, like a jacket wrap or cowl neck dress style. If you have wider shoulders a wrap that goes around your waist and brings attention to your hips is a great idea.
Tip#3
Know When To Use Colors and Prints. They are great when used correctly, but if you get it wrong, it could be disastrous. Use a print or color to draw attention to a certain area. If you have a smaller bust and want to enhance it, get a printed/colored top half and a plain black bottom to match. If you have small hips and a large upper body, put emphasis on the lower half with a printed wrap or skirt and have plain colors on your top half. Once you figure it out, prints and colors will be your best friends.
Tip#4
Accessorize. I know you probably think I am crazy, but for real – with any outfit you want to add a few things to beef up the look so why not a swimsuit- it is an outfit after all. When you are in the water, for sure, bathing suit only. But when you are lounging or eating lunch on the patio try to add a few things to beef up the look so people can see a full picture view, not just the suit. A bow tied bandanna, a heavy weight cuff, a statement making pair of sandals, and of course an elegant wrap or gauzy sweater to pull the look together. Don’t forget your amazing beach bag filled with goodies- magazines, sunscreen, water, fruit, and music.
Once again, confidence is all you need to have a good time. With these added touches, you will feel great and your energy will transfer to everyone you meet. As long as you are having fun and loving the day, everyone will be!
Here’s to a great summer!
xoxo
Stefanie
Shopping Guide:
PEAR SUIT
INVERTED TRIANGLE SUIT
CURVY SUIT
STRAIGHT SUIT
ROUNDED FIGURE SUIT
CASUAL COVER-UP
FANCY COVER-UP
BEACH BAG
And during all these fun summer adventures, you know you are going to want to go swimming. Yes, swimming! I can feel the cool water cascade over me as I write this.
For most women, the thought of being swimsuit ready makes them cringe – at least it makes me cringe. I just want to have fun, you know? Let’s check our paranoia and phobias at the door and discuss the best ways for you to look hot in your swimsuit, as is - no weight loss required!
Tip#1
It’s All About Shape. The right swimsuit shape for your body is key. Don’t go wearing a bikini (or even a tankini) if you have extra weight around your middle. You need something to suck you in. And feel free to wear a strapless bathing suit if you have kick ass shoulders, or a backless design if you’ve got the spine.
The key is to know your shape and go from there. Here are some shapes and ideas for the best swimsuit for you:
Pear Shape: Bring attention to your face and not your hips. Get a suit with Gathers or ruffles near your face to draw attention away from your lower half.
Inverted Triangle: In this case you want to make your shoulders look smaller. Try going for a halter style that has extra detailing on your hips. Horizontal stripes would actually be a great idea here, or a vintage style bottom with a skirt attached. The halter will bring attention inward and the lower skirt will balance out the figure.
Curvy: You are pretty lucky if you have this shape, because really, anything goes. Strapless would be dreamy with some extra gathers around the waist to really play up your curves.
Straight: If you have a boxy shape, you want to try and add curves. Color blocking suits would be great for you (try for a black band across the waist and colors on the top and bottom which will make your waist look tiny and your breasts look big). Cut-outs would work well here too, just try not to go overboard - just a little glimpse of skin.
All Over Round: Try incorporating all the elements. Go for a halter suit, with that added skirt on the bottom. Make sure it has some gathering in the torso area and if it is multi colored all the better!
Tip#2
Wraps Are Lovely. They really are great for covering less attractive bits and they can add structure to your look. If you are heavier on the bottom go for a wrap that cascades off your hips, like a jacket wrap or cowl neck dress style. If you have wider shoulders a wrap that goes around your waist and brings attention to your hips is a great idea.
Tip#3
Know When To Use Colors and Prints. They are great when used correctly, but if you get it wrong, it could be disastrous. Use a print or color to draw attention to a certain area. If you have a smaller bust and want to enhance it, get a printed/colored top half and a plain black bottom to match. If you have small hips and a large upper body, put emphasis on the lower half with a printed wrap or skirt and have plain colors on your top half. Once you figure it out, prints and colors will be your best friends.
Tip#4
Accessorize. I know you probably think I am crazy, but for real – with any outfit you want to add a few things to beef up the look so why not a swimsuit- it is an outfit after all. When you are in the water, for sure, bathing suit only. But when you are lounging or eating lunch on the patio try to add a few things to beef up the look so people can see a full picture view, not just the suit. A bow tied bandanna, a heavy weight cuff, a statement making pair of sandals, and of course an elegant wrap or gauzy sweater to pull the look together. Don’t forget your amazing beach bag filled with goodies- magazines, sunscreen, water, fruit, and music.
Once again, confidence is all you need to have a good time. With these added touches, you will feel great and your energy will transfer to everyone you meet. As long as you are having fun and loving the day, everyone will be!
Here’s to a great summer!
xoxo
Stefanie
Shopping Guide:
PEAR SUIT
INVERTED TRIANGLE SUIT
CURVY SUIT
STRAIGHT SUIT
ROUNDED FIGURE SUIT
CASUAL COVER-UP
FANCY COVER-UP
BEACH BAG
Tuesday, May 25, 2010
Stylin' Tip via FGG: Creative Ways to Cover-up
So the lovely ladies at The Fat Girl's Guide to Living asked me to contribute recently to their site by answering readers questions. This one is about how to cover your upper arms during these hot summer months!
Here's a taste: Getting a super cute stretch body suit with 3/4 length or short sleeves, preferably in something current and edgy. Lace is so in right now and would look great under solid colors and/or prints. With a print dress you can get a bit creative and do an 80’s vibe with a denim vest and colored leggings too.
You can read my advice on The Fat Girl's Guide to Living Blog. Hope you find the tips helpful. And make sure you browse through their site - lots of good tips to be had for sure!
Till next time,
xoxo
Stefanie
Here's a taste: Getting a super cute stretch body suit with 3/4 length or short sleeves, preferably in something current and edgy. Lace is so in right now and would look great under solid colors and/or prints. With a print dress you can get a bit creative and do an 80’s vibe with a denim vest and colored leggings too.
You can read my advice on The Fat Girl's Guide to Living Blog. Hope you find the tips helpful. And make sure you browse through their site - lots of good tips to be had for sure!
Till next time,
xoxo
Stefanie
Thursday, May 13, 2010
Stylin' VIDEO: Day to Night
Since we don't always have time to go home and change before heading out for an evening soiree, here are some tips on how to maximize your time and style!
The key to success with this transformation is planning. Make sure you bring a few key pieces to work with you in the morning and you will be all set for a night on the town.
Watch the video for the summary and read below for detailed tips on how to make your daytime look evening ready!
Tip #1
Remove The Bulk. One of the main differences between a daytime look and a nighttime look is skin. You want to show a little more of it in the evening so take off that blazer or sweater, remove those dark nylons (or add drama with some colored or lace tights), and pull your hair up showing more of your face and neck.
In the video I use a blazer/skirt combo as an example, but you can easily do the same thing with a blazer/pant combo. In that case, definitely add heels, still remove the jacket, and unbutton a few top buttons of your blouse, and add a dramatic necklace. Done.
Tip #2
Be Prepared. It helps to always have some evening essentials on hand at work (and at the very least, if you know you are going out at the end of the day, bring some things from home).
Some standards you might want on reserve:
-A dramatic lipstick (red is my favorite)
-blush (all yours will surely be worn off by the end of the day)
-A pair of heels or fancy dress shoes
-hairspray and a comb (you need to jazz up that hair before you go!)
-accessories (a dramatic necklace, some fun earrings)
Also, the entire transformation process should only take you about 5 minutes. The key here is quickness, so know what you want to add/take away in advance to speed up the process.
Tip #3
Have The Confidence To Try Something New. It is a great trick to try something out when you are in a hurry because you don't have time to second guess it. Once you are out and rockin' it, the compliments will come pouring in and you'll be wondering why you ever questioned it in the first place. A good place to start would be that hair accessory you've been putting off wearing or those new gigantic earrings.
So ladies, ready to plan your next after work dinner date or cocktail party? I certainly hope so!
Xoxo
Stefanie
The key to success with this transformation is planning. Make sure you bring a few key pieces to work with you in the morning and you will be all set for a night on the town.
Watch the video for the summary and read below for detailed tips on how to make your daytime look evening ready!
Tip #1
Remove The Bulk. One of the main differences between a daytime look and a nighttime look is skin. You want to show a little more of it in the evening so take off that blazer or sweater, remove those dark nylons (or add drama with some colored or lace tights), and pull your hair up showing more of your face and neck.
In the video I use a blazer/skirt combo as an example, but you can easily do the same thing with a blazer/pant combo. In that case, definitely add heels, still remove the jacket, and unbutton a few top buttons of your blouse, and add a dramatic necklace. Done.
Tip #2
Be Prepared. It helps to always have some evening essentials on hand at work (and at the very least, if you know you are going out at the end of the day, bring some things from home).
Some standards you might want on reserve:
-A dramatic lipstick (red is my favorite)
-blush (all yours will surely be worn off by the end of the day)
-A pair of heels or fancy dress shoes
-hairspray and a comb (you need to jazz up that hair before you go!)
-accessories (a dramatic necklace, some fun earrings)
Also, the entire transformation process should only take you about 5 minutes. The key here is quickness, so know what you want to add/take away in advance to speed up the process.
Tip #3
Have The Confidence To Try Something New. It is a great trick to try something out when you are in a hurry because you don't have time to second guess it. Once you are out and rockin' it, the compliments will come pouring in and you'll be wondering why you ever questioned it in the first place. A good place to start would be that hair accessory you've been putting off wearing or those new gigantic earrings.
So ladies, ready to plan your next after work dinner date or cocktail party? I certainly hope so!
Xoxo
Stefanie
Monday, April 5, 2010
Stylin' Tip: Give It a Try!
One of the phrases I hate to hear women say is “Oh, I could never pull that off”. Why not? I think women should take the leap and try blending current trends with their personal style. Don’t forget that the old cliché stands true: You never know unless you try!
Some tips to make it easier for you are below:
Tip #1:
Start Small. Work in one new thing at a time. Some cute earrings first, then a waist-belt, then a bow headband, then an awesome pair of heels. Week by week you can build to the look until you are confident enough to wear everything together (you can by the way).
Tip #2:
Know Who To Ask For Advice. If you are planning on wearing that feather hair clip for the first time, don’t ask the friend who hasn’t changed her hairstyle in 10 years if it looks good – it will only make you both angry. You need to find someone whose style you admire and who you don't feel competitive with. Don’t be afraid to ask that style maven at work how she does it or what she thinks of your look. Most people love to share their tips and also love compliments.
Tip #3:
Don’t Abandon Reason. A new look or accessory is great, but lets consider the time and place. A regular office workday might not be the appropriate time to show off the new fedora, but an evening dinner date - go for it!
Tip #4:
Fit Rules Still Apply. Don’t wear something if it doesn’t fit properly. Those short shorts that give you a muffin top and show a bunch of cellulite are not a good idea no matter how "of the moment" the style is. Clothing still has to fit and flatter you in order for it to look good.
Tip #5:
Don’t Get Theatrical. This is all about enhancing your look. If you are too bold, you could be screaming "look at my new accessories!" Try to think modern and not trendy and work within a comfortable color palette. Add style with a cute printed scarf and not an entire printed dress. As noted in point 1, work in small steps to achieve your look.
Tip #6:
Confidence is key. The only way you can wear anything is if you believe you look good in it yourself. You have to love it. You have to want to be wearing it. And trust me, if you believe it, others will too. Don’t be intimidated by all the stares you will be getting - it is because you look mega hot! Trust.
So try out that new item today and get ready to turn some heads!
xoxo
Stefanie
Shopping Guide:
Clip
Earrings
Necklace
Scarf
Shoes
Some tips to make it easier for you are below:
Tip #1:
Start Small. Work in one new thing at a time. Some cute earrings first, then a waist-belt, then a bow headband, then an awesome pair of heels. Week by week you can build to the look until you are confident enough to wear everything together (you can by the way).
Tip #2:
Know Who To Ask For Advice. If you are planning on wearing that feather hair clip for the first time, don’t ask the friend who hasn’t changed her hairstyle in 10 years if it looks good – it will only make you both angry. You need to find someone whose style you admire and who you don't feel competitive with. Don’t be afraid to ask that style maven at work how she does it or what she thinks of your look. Most people love to share their tips and also love compliments.
Tip #3:
Don’t Abandon Reason. A new look or accessory is great, but lets consider the time and place. A regular office workday might not be the appropriate time to show off the new fedora, but an evening dinner date - go for it!
Tip #4:
Fit Rules Still Apply. Don’t wear something if it doesn’t fit properly. Those short shorts that give you a muffin top and show a bunch of cellulite are not a good idea no matter how "of the moment" the style is. Clothing still has to fit and flatter you in order for it to look good.
Tip #5:
Don’t Get Theatrical. This is all about enhancing your look. If you are too bold, you could be screaming "look at my new accessories!" Try to think modern and not trendy and work within a comfortable color palette. Add style with a cute printed scarf and not an entire printed dress. As noted in point 1, work in small steps to achieve your look.
Tip #6:
Confidence is key. The only way you can wear anything is if you believe you look good in it yourself. You have to love it. You have to want to be wearing it. And trust me, if you believe it, others will too. Don’t be intimidated by all the stares you will be getting - it is because you look mega hot! Trust.
So try out that new item today and get ready to turn some heads!
xoxo
Stefanie
Shopping Guide:
Clip
Earrings
Necklace
Scarf
Shoes
Monday, March 29, 2010
Stylin' VIDEO: Eliminating the Muffin Top
For today’s tip we are focusing on that area at the waistline where many women get that unsightly bulge hanging over. Now, I realize that everyone has problem days and I am certainly not immune to this predicament, but let's try to make the best look possible with what we’ve got!
Below is a video detailing this problem or scroll down further for more detailed instructions.
1. Don’t be afraid to wear a bigger size. Yes, it is a bummer when we grow a bit bigger than our normal size, but it isn’t the end of the world. Go out and buy a new pair of pants! You work hard, you deserve nice things. No one knows what size you are wearing and no one cares. With that extra few inches of space you eliminate any skin/fat hanging over and instantly have a smoother shape- thus making you look thinner.
2. Please no tight shirts with tight pants. If you absolutely must wear bottoms that are too tight, please wear the appropriate top. Make sure you have a blouse that cascades over the belly area and doesn’t cling to it. A heavy weight fabric is great for this, or even a billowing crepe or chiffon. I would avoid any stretch items in this case. This is a great quick fix for when you are in that in between stage of sizes and don’t want to buy something new just yet.
3. Avoid low rise pants and skirts. The style I see from a lot of retailers these days is super low cut - Like 4” of rise. How is that comfortable? The low cut also sits lower on the abdomen (where there is more bulk) and what results is the muffin top. By just wearing bottoms with a higher waist, you can banish this problem. The higher the waistline the narrower the abdomen gets. The higher waist will cover up all the rolls. Try it, you’ll see.
4. Stand tall and proud. I am old fashioned, but I have an issue with slouching. Even more of an issue when I see that it adds extra weight to a person. By standing up tall and straight, it gives the fat somewhere to go (a more even distribution if you will) and will make you look slimmer- promise.
xoxo
Stefanie
Below is a video detailing this problem or scroll down further for more detailed instructions.
1. Don’t be afraid to wear a bigger size. Yes, it is a bummer when we grow a bit bigger than our normal size, but it isn’t the end of the world. Go out and buy a new pair of pants! You work hard, you deserve nice things. No one knows what size you are wearing and no one cares. With that extra few inches of space you eliminate any skin/fat hanging over and instantly have a smoother shape- thus making you look thinner.
2. Please no tight shirts with tight pants. If you absolutely must wear bottoms that are too tight, please wear the appropriate top. Make sure you have a blouse that cascades over the belly area and doesn’t cling to it. A heavy weight fabric is great for this, or even a billowing crepe or chiffon. I would avoid any stretch items in this case. This is a great quick fix for when you are in that in between stage of sizes and don’t want to buy something new just yet.
3. Avoid low rise pants and skirts. The style I see from a lot of retailers these days is super low cut - Like 4” of rise. How is that comfortable? The low cut also sits lower on the abdomen (where there is more bulk) and what results is the muffin top. By just wearing bottoms with a higher waist, you can banish this problem. The higher the waistline the narrower the abdomen gets. The higher waist will cover up all the rolls. Try it, you’ll see.
4. Stand tall and proud. I am old fashioned, but I have an issue with slouching. Even more of an issue when I see that it adds extra weight to a person. By standing up tall and straight, it gives the fat somewhere to go (a more even distribution if you will) and will make you look slimmer- promise.
xoxo
Stefanie
Tuesday, March 16, 2010
Stylin' VIDEO: Boxy to Hot
Today I wanted to discuss with you a common problem I see- Boxy Fitting Clothing.
In some ways it is good to have your clothes be bigger or square, because the items then cascade off the body and hide all those problem areas we all have.
The trouble is when we don’t style those cuts properly and end up looking bigger than we are.
Watch the video or read my more detailed tips below:
1. If your shirt has a square cut, try adding a belt. If you can’t find a cool belt that is your size, go out and get some ribbon to give your waist definition. If you really don’t like the idea of a belt, chose a vest or jacket that cuts in at the waist- this will also define the body.
2. Most women I see are wearing the “boot cut” pant. To be honest, unless you are actually wearing boots, I don’t think this style pant is doing you any favors. Try wearing a more modern silhouette. Slim fit is preferred or if that doesn’t work for you, go with a wide leg instead of boot cut.
Boot cuts tend to be too baggy and despite what people tell you, they do not balance out a figure. A tiny little flare at the hem does not equal a large upper body. And also, make sure they are the right length. If a pant is too short it can make you look stumpy. The pant should be just close enough to the floor without touching it.
3. Shoes are a very important accessory and should not be forgotten. I love heels, but I walk everywhere I go, so they are not very practical. I prefer to wear a ballet flat for everyday that has a bit of detail (a pop of color, a bow, a ruffle). They look great with everything- Slim fit pants, wide leg pants, skirts and dresses. Try transitioning out of a heavy, clunking shoe.
4. Don’t forget that your face is one of your best features and should never be forgotten! By pulling your hair back, adding some fresh and quick make-up, your look is complete!
xoxo
Stefanie
In some ways it is good to have your clothes be bigger or square, because the items then cascade off the body and hide all those problem areas we all have.
The trouble is when we don’t style those cuts properly and end up looking bigger than we are.
Watch the video or read my more detailed tips below:
1. If your shirt has a square cut, try adding a belt. If you can’t find a cool belt that is your size, go out and get some ribbon to give your waist definition. If you really don’t like the idea of a belt, chose a vest or jacket that cuts in at the waist- this will also define the body.
2. Most women I see are wearing the “boot cut” pant. To be honest, unless you are actually wearing boots, I don’t think this style pant is doing you any favors. Try wearing a more modern silhouette. Slim fit is preferred or if that doesn’t work for you, go with a wide leg instead of boot cut.
Boot cuts tend to be too baggy and despite what people tell you, they do not balance out a figure. A tiny little flare at the hem does not equal a large upper body. And also, make sure they are the right length. If a pant is too short it can make you look stumpy. The pant should be just close enough to the floor without touching it.
3. Shoes are a very important accessory and should not be forgotten. I love heels, but I walk everywhere I go, so they are not very practical. I prefer to wear a ballet flat for everyday that has a bit of detail (a pop of color, a bow, a ruffle). They look great with everything- Slim fit pants, wide leg pants, skirts and dresses. Try transitioning out of a heavy, clunking shoe.
4. Don’t forget that your face is one of your best features and should never be forgotten! By pulling your hair back, adding some fresh and quick make-up, your look is complete!
xoxo
Stefanie
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